Our first dream is from an attractive single mother of three children, with Aries zodiac sign. She is recently separated, and having difficulties reconciling the relationship.
Dream as follows:
It's morbid, strange and reoccurring for over 5 years. The dream starts in a black and white and grey.. more grey than anything else. Setting: Me and a man, of whom I can't remember his face, are walking down along a sea wall. Waves are crazy behind us, but in front calmed waters. As we are ending the sea wall and coming to a cove of sorts, I notice mounds of debris in the water. My eye catches movement in the water. I can tell it's a child and he is moving and yelling. I look at the man and beg him to go in and get him. He argues with me until the child is no longer moving. Farther away, there is a girl, maybe a sibling? Both share the same blonde hair, age and uniforms. Maybe twins? I see she is barely moving, so I dive in. As it gets to my chest I grab her. She clings to me and I work my way to the boy. Once there, I see he is gone. I try to bring him in but he beginning to sink. I turn and work my way back to shore with the girl, and she looks up at me. Her eyes are silver and red. I was suddenly scared of her and just wanted to get her to shore. As I got a little under waste level something hits my lower leg hard, and then comes up to take us under... that's when I wake up. I've tried for 5 yrs to make it change but never does. One thing I've noticed is that I never hear things in it. Like water moving, or birds, or even the boys yelling. Not even me pledding with the guy to help. Also I have noticed pictures on boxes in the water, etc. Most are of tropical flowers w some sort of bird on them.
Question:
Do you feel as though you know the man, or does he seem more like a stranger?
Answer:
I like know him.
Dream interpretation:
The beginning foreshadows a sense of transition.. walking with a faceless man, gray, with waves behind and calm ahead. It may mean that you have seen hard times and are searching for peace, in a transition that is likely still in progress after at least 5 years. Mounds of debris may represent the obstacles that you need to overcome but still linger. As there are children in the water, at least a boy and a girl, you may have fear/concern for your own children, and this worry is preventing you from reaching the “calm.” Arguing with a man to save the child until he stops moving may mean that you are hoping for a man to guide your children, but know that one never will. You fear that it is up to you and you alone to guide them. And you know that if you continue to argue with a man for help, the children will be forever “lost at sea” before the issue is resolved. This dream may represent the maternal need to protect and guide your children, but a fear that you are unable to do it on your own, and will forever be unable to find peace in your life because the need to protect your children is so strong. The reality is, your children are their own people. You need to be careful not to draw them into your personal life struggles, because they are growing people and have struggles of their own, with full lives to live ahead. You can provide and nurture for them, but you may not always totally understand them and must allow them to find their own path. It won’t be until you release them into their own destinies, that you will be able to let go and find true peace and a new destiny for yourself. I would say to leave the faceless man behind, but the dream suggests that you already have. You know that the man is of no help, and will not be able to guide you or save the children. He may be a companion, but not a savior. Perhaps there is a way to toss a life raft to the children, without completely diving in yourself and tying all your fates together. The silence represents the fact that your own intuition must guide you. Words and advice from others is little more than background noise, and will probably not provide you with any more feedback than you already know. Birds and tropical flowers represent the freeing future that you desire. The water is not completely full of “obstacles” !!
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Dream as follows:
It's morbid, strange and reoccurring for over 5 years. The dream starts in a black and white and grey.. more grey than anything else. Setting: Me and a man, of whom I can't remember his face, are walking down along a sea wall. Waves are crazy behind us, but in front calmed waters. As we are ending the sea wall and coming to a cove of sorts, I notice mounds of debris in the water. My eye catches movement in the water. I can tell it's a child and he is moving and yelling. I look at the man and beg him to go in and get him. He argues with me until the child is no longer moving. Farther away, there is a girl, maybe a sibling? Both share the same blonde hair, age and uniforms. Maybe twins? I see she is barely moving, so I dive in. As it gets to my chest I grab her. She clings to me and I work my way to the boy. Once there, I see he is gone. I try to bring him in but he beginning to sink. I turn and work my way back to shore with the girl, and she looks up at me. Her eyes are silver and red. I was suddenly scared of her and just wanted to get her to shore. As I got a little under waste level something hits my lower leg hard, and then comes up to take us under... that's when I wake up. I've tried for 5 yrs to make it change but never does. One thing I've noticed is that I never hear things in it. Like water moving, or birds, or even the boys yelling. Not even me pledding with the guy to help. Also I have noticed pictures on boxes in the water, etc. Most are of tropical flowers w some sort of bird on them.
Question:
Do you feel as though you know the man, or does he seem more like a stranger?
Answer:
I like know him.
Dream interpretation:
The beginning foreshadows a sense of transition.. walking with a faceless man, gray, with waves behind and calm ahead. It may mean that you have seen hard times and are searching for peace, in a transition that is likely still in progress after at least 5 years. Mounds of debris may represent the obstacles that you need to overcome but still linger. As there are children in the water, at least a boy and a girl, you may have fear/concern for your own children, and this worry is preventing you from reaching the “calm.” Arguing with a man to save the child until he stops moving may mean that you are hoping for a man to guide your children, but know that one never will. You fear that it is up to you and you alone to guide them. And you know that if you continue to argue with a man for help, the children will be forever “lost at sea” before the issue is resolved. This dream may represent the maternal need to protect and guide your children, but a fear that you are unable to do it on your own, and will forever be unable to find peace in your life because the need to protect your children is so strong. The reality is, your children are their own people. You need to be careful not to draw them into your personal life struggles, because they are growing people and have struggles of their own, with full lives to live ahead. You can provide and nurture for them, but you may not always totally understand them and must allow them to find their own path. It won’t be until you release them into their own destinies, that you will be able to let go and find true peace and a new destiny for yourself. I would say to leave the faceless man behind, but the dream suggests that you already have. You know that the man is of no help, and will not be able to guide you or save the children. He may be a companion, but not a savior. Perhaps there is a way to toss a life raft to the children, without completely diving in yourself and tying all your fates together. The silence represents the fact that your own intuition must guide you. Words and advice from others is little more than background noise, and will probably not provide you with any more feedback than you already know. Birds and tropical flowers represent the freeing future that you desire. The water is not completely full of “obstacles” !!
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